"When we are green, still half-created, we believe that our dreams are rights, that the world is disposed to act in our best interests, and that falling and dying are for quitters."
OK, unlike Hemingway, Updike, etc., there aren't a million photos out there of Tobias Wolff dressed to the nines, or at least outfitted in some dated costume that can be posted on an inspiration board, or tumblr. I mean, his time continueth. Dude is still writing. Most photos out there are of Wolff well into his career as writer and academic, and while they say he's not afraid of a pink shirt, they're not especially distinctive. So I'm dressing up this post with some snips from This Boy's Life, Wolff's memoir of his transient, messy boyhood, anchored by his time in rural Washington state. His portrayal of himself as a young fabulist is entertaining, depressing, and easy to identify with, even though the circumstances of his upbringing are unusual. And the writing is smart, incisive, and full of gems.
Leonardo DiCaprio played young Wolff in the film version of This Boy's Life.
"Like chess or music, coolness claimed its own out of some mysterious impulse of recognition. Uncoolness did likewise. We had been claimed by uncoolness." --Wolff on making friends
Wolff in full dad gear.
"His vanity crested above his head in a stupendous gleaming pompadour." --Wolff on one of his bad-crowd pals in high school
An older photo of the always-mustachioed Wolff.
A recent photo. OCBD and club tie imply some lingering effects of his Hill School education. Wolff's entirely fraudulent application, and subsequent acceptance, at the Pennsylvania prep school is documented in This Boy's Life. He was expelled after two years. Of course, the Preppy Handbook devoted an entire section to "the importance of getting kicked out." It should probably be noted that Wolff does not bask in the imagined glory of prep/Ivy-ness, or at least he doesn't any longer. He has said that his father harbored a "pathetic WASP fantasy."
A shot from Life magazine of life at the Hill, a few years before Wolff's time.
"A pile grew. Two jackets, one of Donegal, the other of Harris tweed. A blazer. A suit. Several pairs of pants in gabardine and twill. A dozen Oxford shirts. Ties. A raincoat. Corduroy pants and flannel shirts for "hacking around," as Mr. Howard put it. A pair of Weejuns, a pair of dress shoes, and a pair of brogans-also for hacking around. Three sweaters. Then another pile of clothes for warm weather, and another for sports." --Wolff on getting outfitted for life at the Hill
A good chunk of This Boy's Life is dedicated to Wolff's years in Washington state, when he lived near Concrete.
"Knowing that everything comes to an end is a gift of experience, a consolation gift for knowing that we ourselves are coming to an end. Before we get it we live in a continuous present, and imagine the future as more of that present. Happiness is endless happiness, innocent of its own sure passing. Pain is endless pain." --Wolff on the joys of kid-dom